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Wednesday, February 1

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If you are new around these parts, the Mister and I took the Dave Ramsey Financial Peace University course through our church last year. We have a goal to pay off half of our consumer debt this year. You can catch up on our journey by checking out our previous recaps:

January Budget

Gosh, it seems tough to get back into the swing of things after the holiday season. The Mister and I definitely indulged a bit this month, going out to eat and purchasing some unplanned clothing purchases; also, I ordered some supplies from Weight Watchers to help get my new dietary lifestyle on track.

Luckily, there was extra income to cover these expenses, and I'm super thankful that my husband is so supportive of my journey and goals. In February, we're going to have to buckle down though because paying off that debt snowball is way more important than a whim for jewelry or leggings.


January Victories & Blessings

In addition to covering the expenses that popped up because of whims last month, we made the decision that I would attend our martial arts national convention in April and pair that with a trip to see my parents, who moved to Washington. The Mister was very adamant that I take this opportunity since there will be recognition for my black belt promotion.

It's a good feeling to pay for a trip completely upfront with cash. My plane tickets are paid for. My registration fee is paid for. I have the money for the hotel costs in cash. And I get to spend almost a week with my parents before the convention.

Paying for this trip may slow our debt snowball down a little, but we're both glad that I can go; two years ago, our method of funding would have been debt.


If you want to take control of your finances, I'd suggest reading The Total Money Makeover. Or go online to daveramsey.com to find a Financial Peace University course starting near you.


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Monday, January 30

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It's been a little while since I've celebrated the love of coffee here on the blog. With the weather having turned colder this week and Valentine's Day right around the corner, this seems like a perfect opportunity to change that.


Don't forget that for some of us, sharing a cup of coffee is speaking a love language. Here are my top handmade picks of Valentine's Day gifts for the coffee lover in your life.









I hope these gift ideas provide you with plenty of inspiration to spoil the coffee lover in your life for Valentine's Day. Please feel free to share with me any gift ideas that I've missed.

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Friday, January 27

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Good morning, lovelies!

It's time for the Friday Confessional party. Confession is good for the soul, so stop by to share all your dirty, little secrets. You'll feel better when you're finished, and we promise not to judge.



This year, I'm trying something new by recording my Friday Confessions on Facebook Live. Please stop by the High-Heeled Love Facebook page at 1p.m. EST each week to join the conversation in real time.


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Monday, January 23

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I talked earlier this afternoon on Facebook Live about my goals for 2017, and one of those goals is about to lose about 40 pounds. I have joined Weight Watchers as a tool to help me with this, but there are many other day-to-day healthy choices that I plan to make in order to establish new habits.


I think sometimes we put off making healthier choices in our day-to-day lives because we get overwhelmed with how many changes we want to make. And sometimes, we put off leading a healthier lifestyle because we think that we need to spend a lot of money on new foods, new exercise equipment, a new gym, a new fitness program or a new training coach.

I'm here to tell you that doesn't have to be the case. You can start making changes today without getting overwhelmed and without spending a lot of money.

Here are seven healthy choices you can make today without spending a dime.


1. Get Enough Sleep

I think that I mention sleep habits almost every time I write about making healthy choices. I think it's something that we ladies don't place enough importance on.

And we should.

Seriously, getting enough sleep reduces our stress levels, allows us to think more clearly, and make better choices. Being sleep deprived makes us more likely to crave sugar or sweets, reduces our energy levels, and affects our body's ability to lose weight.

Want to learn some way to improve your sleep quality?
Check out my blog post: Why You Need More Sleep & How to Get It.

2. Drink Plenty of Water

Much like getting enough sleep, staying well hydrated can improve your brain function. In fact, it can help your body compensate when you are sleep deprived.

Drinking plenty of fluids also helps flushes our bodies of toxins, helps regulate hunger and improves skin quality. Swapping water for sugary drinks or soda will help with weight loss, which is a great bonus.

I also find that there's a huge difference in my ability to perform and keep myself safe in jujitsu class when I've had plenty to drink. I aim for drinking half my body weight in ounces (80 ounces if you weigh 160 pounds), but you should speak with your medical professional about how much water (or other non-caffeinated beverages) will be the right amount of hydration for you.


3. Floss Your Teeth Daily

Okay, this is a little geeky, but my dentist will be happy. Seriously, taking care of our teeth and gums can help prevent serious health concerns like heart disease.

Having pretty pearly whites is also going to increase your confidence levels, and smiling at someone as you walk down the street is a great way to boost your mood and probably make their day.

4. Go Outside

This goes beyond getting some daily movement in. I mean, going for a 10-minute walk can be a great way to start integrating exercise into your life. Since I am a dedicated Fitbit user, I do advocate setting and tracking a daily step goal.

But I also want to advocate the benefits of fresh air and sunshine. Spending some time outside is a great way to let your mind recharge, and sunshine is one of best natural sources of vitamin D. I'm willing to bet if you take a stroll around the block every day for a week, you'll feel more energized and more at peace.

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5. Stretch

Even if you aren't regularly exercising. Stretching for a few minutes at the start of each can be beneficial. It will help you maintain your body's mobility and will help "wake up" your body for the day ahead.

If you are regularly exercising, properly stretching can help prevent injury and help increase performance. You can also use stretching as a measure of physical capability; I really surprised myself when working on the 30-day stretch project in 2015. My endurance and flexibility were markedly different from day 1 to day 30.


6. Meditate

Establishing a meditation practice was something that my massage instructor really emphasized when I took the class.

Even just 10 minutes each day will help you bring more focus and clarity to your day. I'll admit that I don't meditate daily, but on the days that I do, I find that my mind is calmer, I'm more productive at work, and I feel better overall.

And learning to control your breath can help you lower your heart rate when you find yourself in a stressful situation.

7. Establish a Gratitude Practice

Taking some time each day to review what we're thankful for can help reduce stress levels, which definitively has physical and mental health benefits.

I believe that have a gratitude practice will improve our relationships with those around us and that focusing on positivity will attract more positivity in our live.

This is actually the habit that I'm working on this month. I have a journal where I'm recording 3 things each day that I'm grateful for.

Get Started Today

Choose any one of these changes to establish a new healthy habit. Focus on it for about 30 days to be sure it's well-established. Then choose another healthy choice. No money required unless you choose to spend it.

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What's healthy habit will you choose to focus on? What other ways can you make healthy choices that cost nothing?






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Friday, January 20

Good morning, lovelies!

It's time for the Friday Confessional party. Confession is good for the soul, so stop by to share all your dirty, little secrets. You'll feel better when you're finished, and we promise not to judge.


I thought it would be fun to handle my confessions a little differently this year, by doing a video confessional so please watch below...or catch me live on Facebook next week at 1p.m. EST.



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Monday, January 16

I want to talk about money and our debt.

When we started our Financial Peace journey, I was too embarrassed to share our numbers on the blog, but a year of listening to Dave Ramsey podcasts has helped me to get over that.


So I want to share more detail about where we're at because we have a big goal for 2017.
We're knocking out the rest of our debt snowball this year.
To do that, we'll need support from our entire community...including my awesome blogging friends. And I think we'll have better support if we share more about where our debt is and what we need to do to accomplish our goal.

The 2016 goal

After graduating from Financial Peace University just before Christmas, one of our household goals for 2016 was to pay down half of our debt snowball.

Here is where we started the year:
4 credit cards: $16,836
1 bank loan: $3,106
1 auto loan: $10,925
Total snowball: $30,867
Here is where we're ended the year:
2 credit cards: $11,084
2 bank loans: $10,162
Total snowball:  $21,246

Even though we didn't hit our number, I'm calling last year a success. Here's why. We overcame the following obstacles last year:
  • A $7000+ tax bill that exceeded our savings for taxes; thus the bank loan because we determined we'd rather owe a bank than the IRS.
  • Our hot water heater died in July; we had money in the emergency fund to replace it without money drama.
  • The Mister lost his job in August; we stayed on budget until he found a new one and didn't have to touch our emergency fund.
  • The Mister's car was totaled in an accident in November, and we purchased a replacement with cash from the settlement without going into our emergency fund.
  • Both our cars needed major repairs in November and December, and we were able to cash flow the repairs without touching the emergency fund.
In spite of all the challenges life threw at us in 2016, we reduced our debt snowball by 30 percent. We also celebrated the following wins in last year:

  • I sold my car, which means we'll never have a car payment again.
  • The Mister has proven some serious hustle with his side work and now has enough weekend gigs lined up to easily take us into the spring.
  • Having money goals gave me the push to open my Etsy shop Chasing Blue Jays.

We had no money drama, no money stress, no money fights because we had a written plan to tackle the challenges. We controlled the money; it didn't control us.

Money Goal 2017

And this year is going to be our year; we're coming after that remaining $21,000 with a vengeance. We have a plan:

  • Tighten the budget to squeeze even more dollars to throw at the debt
  • Create more income via side hustles
  • Grow my full-time business, my blog income, and my Etsy shop
  • Have faith that more opportunities and blessings will come our way

And I'm asking for your help. Please send prayer and/or positive energy our way. Cheer us on and help us stay accountable.

Do you have financial goals for 2017? What can you do to take control of your finances?





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Tuesday, January 10

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With all the holiday entertaining I’ve been up to (read: dishwashing), my hands have been feeling drier and more cracked than usual. As you know if you've been hanging around here, I’ve been a long-time fan of Mrs. Meyer’s dish soap and hand soap. I've always wished they had a matching lotion for a post-dishwashing treat. Well guess what — now they do!

Of course it’s made with plant-derived ingredients and no parabens or phthalates. But the real reason I love it is that it makes my hands feel heavenly. After I do the dishes, I squirt one pump of this into my palm and rub it in (a little goes a long way). It sinks in right away, which means I can jump on my computer or pull my latest crochet project right out without getting grease everywhere.


Thanks to the essential oils, it smells amazing too. You can choose from from your favorite Mrs. Meyer’s scents and after months of cinnamon spice, these fresh scents make me want to clear out all the clutter in our house and get ready for spring.

Only at Grove

I’m so excited about this product that I had to share this offer from Grove. When you sign up using my link, you’ll get a free Mrs. Meyer’s lotion + kitchen set to help you get a fresh start on the new year. Even sweeter? The lotion is only available at Grove right now, so you’ll be the first to try it! It’s the perfect opportunity to treat yourself to a little pick-me-up for you and your home.

Here’s what new Grove Collaborative customers get with their first purchase of $20:
  • Free Mrs. Meyer’s hand soap
  • Free Mrs. Meyer’s dish soap
  • Free Mrs. Meyer’s lotion
  • Free Grove Collaborative Enamel Cleaning Caddy
  • Free Grove Collaborative Walnut Scrubber Sponges
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Of course, nothing says “I’ve got it together” like a matching trio of dish soap, hand soap, and lotion sitting neatly by the sink.

Toss the kids’ art supplies or homework stuff in this chic Grove Collaborative enamel caddy and, voila, you’re ready for last-minute visitors without breaking a sweat


Make Life Easy

Here’s one more thing that will make life easy: your subscription to Grove Collaborative. After all the holiday madness, I have zero desire to run to the store for a tube of toothpaste. Grove hand-selects the best natural products (like this Mrs. Meyer’s lotion) and delivers them to my door, on my schedule — for less than what I used to pay at the grocery store. I can choose the products in my shipment and order at any time, but Grove also recommends a shipment schedule to keep me on-budget and stocked up on essentials.

Saving money and going green? That’s two resolutions checked off right there!

This Mrs. Meyer’s lotion is only available at Grove Collaborative and supplies are limited, so don’t wait! I’m excited for you to try it and see why I’m such a fan of Grove. Here’s how it works:

  1. Sign up for Grove Collaborative HERE. You will receive the Fresh Start Kit for free when you sign up! If you’re already a Grove customer, you’ll receive a Mrs. Meyer’s hand soap for free with your next order.
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Wednesday, January 4

I have to say that last year was good to me, and I think that some of it had to do with using a word to help me stay focused during the year - ACHIEVE. Keeping this word in mind, I set four major goals for, and I'm counting 3 of them as successfully completed.

Looking forward to 2017, I realized that what I want to accomplish were things that had been on my someday list for years. I had just put them off because I was either afraid or wasn't staying consistent.

I proved to myself over and over last year that I could accomplish big things if I just decided not to give up.


So for 2017, my word of the year is START.

I want this year to be the year that I do things even if I'm afraid, even if I don't want to, even when it's hard.

And I don't want fear to get in my way anymore. Nor will I allow complacency get in the way of establishing the new habits that will allow me to be more successful in my businesses or aspects of life. And I don't have to have the entire plan to get moving.

So the plan for this year is to identify the goal, figure out the first action step and START. If I have to adjust my direction later, I'll deal with that then.







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